TRANSFORM YOUR HEARTBREAK
INTO YOUR BREAKTHROUGH.
I AM LOVE is a group coaching program that uses writing tools and strategies for transformational healing.
Heartbreak is a word used here to describe all forms of pain in all forms of love and relationships. Heartbreak is any experience of grief, stress, or loss that has shattered our hearts once or multiple times throughout our lives. Even when these experiences are no longer present, they can become negative voices that convince us that our capacity to give and receive love isn’t enough.
You are enough. You ARE love. But maybe you are struggling to believe that you are worthy and capable of receiving love, because you are still living in a story that centers on your pain, rather than your power.
CHANGE YOUR STORY, CHANGE YOUR LIFE:
THE POWER OF REFRAMING.
Discover your new self-love language.
The language we use to describe ourselves and our experiences shape our reality. Let’s uncover the language of your new story through the power of reframing.
IF YOU STRUGGLE WITH
Limiting beliefs and false narratives about who you are and who you want to become.
Feeling unsure about how to share your story from a position of power and not pain or trauma.
Seeking connection to those who have had similar life experiences.
WE WILL CREATE
Scripts that will anchor you into your new reality while honoring the totality of all of your past and current experiences.
A confident new narrative that provides you with an authentic life road map of where you have been and where you want to go.
A public narrative that connects your unique and personal experiences to the collective and shared human experiences.
THE BLANK PAGE DOESN'T HAVE TO STAY BLANK.
Let me guess: you’re excited about rewriting your heartbreak story, but the idea of a blank page is unsettling or even scary to you…
...and that’s totally okay. The good news: I’m here to make writing feel as easy as possible by supporting and guiding you through a step-by-step framework that will empower you to rewrite your life story.
All you need to do is show up. No prior writing experience is required!
Hi, I AM HAYLEE.
I empower women by supporting their journey of knowing and speaking their TRUTH through storytelling.
I tell stories about identity, culture, mental health and wellness through the lens of being an Asian American woman from the Southeast Asian diaspora.
As the co-founder of Talk Story Oakland and co-producer of Don't Say Sorry Podcast, my mission is to help amplify the stories of previously marginalized communities in my work as a story advocate and facilitator.
I am a certified Life Story Coach and worked as a Mental Health Counselor for a recovery residential program.
Since 2018, I have facilitated and held over 100 safe and brave spaces for women of color.
INTRODUCING A NEW AND EXCITING WAY TO
WORK WITH ME IN 2021!
I AM LOVE
"I AM LOVE" is a group coaching & writing program for women of color ready to turn painful lessons from their experiences with heartbreak into powerful messages of hope for themselves and others . Our I AM LOVE coaching framework will guide you through actionable steps with tools to reframe your negative experiences into a story that has the power to heal you AND others.
TOGETHER, WE WILL HONOR THE
POWER OF YOUR INNER WISDOM.
When you find and hear your inner wisdom...
You emerge with clarity and the ability to confidently express who you were, how heartbreak changes you, and who you are today.
You emerge with courage to own your truth and share it in a safe container, which will be in our group coaching sessions.
You emerge with courage to own your truth and share it in a safe container, which will be our group coaching sessions.
You emerge with a life map that connects the dots of your experiences. Patterns that may not have been previously apparently to you may show up, so that you can recognize what has been missing throughout your healing journey. Positive experiences and miracles that may not have been fully honored previously may be uncovered — and celebrated!
THE 13 WEEK JOURNEY
HOW DO LIFE STORIES GET WRITTEN?
Intro to psychology of identity and how stories get written.
THE SCIENCE BEHIND HEARTBREAK.
Why does losing love feel so awful?
SETTING UP YOUR HEARTBREAK STORY.
Identify your current core beliefs about love and relationships and where they came from.
YOU ARE THE MAIN CHARACTER.
Let's review all the roles you have played in your life.
Who assigned you these roles and do you believe in the scripts that you're reading?
FROM LOSS TO LOVE: REWRITING YOUR HEARTBREAK STORY
Using reframing tools and techniques, we will rewrite your story following the public narrative framework and template by Marshall Ganz. During this section, we will also work individually through three sessions of private one-on-one coaching!
COMMUNITY SHARE & CARE EVENT
Share your story in front of a community of storytellers and draw strength from others witnessing your story.
LIVING YOUR NEW "I AM LOVE" STORY
Integration & accountability — How will you integrate your new understanding of love in your daily life?
MEETING & TIMELINES
13 weeks - program to start at the end of February 2021 and will conclude mid May , 2021.
90 minute live group coaching sessions currently scheduled for Sunday mornings.
Our timeline will be determined by the group and is subject to change .
WHEN YOU SIGN UP,
YOU WILL . . .
Find clarity with your story, connect the dots and identify patterns for healing.
Write & complete a new personal statement that centers your power instead of pain.
Feel confident to live out your new “I AM LOVE” story.
A storyteller portal with supplemental resource materials, writing prompts, and video recordings of each session.
Opportunity to connect and collaborate with like-minded storytellers.
THIS IS FOR STORYTELLERS WHO ARE . . .
Ready to dive deep into self-exploration.
Curious about writing and storytelling for healing.
Excited to put pen to paper and make impactful, measurable changes in their life.
This program is only a small part of your
healing journey and exploration. This can not replace professional therapy or personalized medical care. With this said, I will do my best to honor both of our needs and capacity and if necessary, I can refer you to my wide network of practitioners.
PRICE TO PARTICIPATE: $1,430
*Sliding Scale & Payment Plans Available
Truths & Testimonials
I've had the pleasure of sharing space with some amazing storytellers. Hear from them below about our time together.
Donna, Designer & Performer
I was seeking a safe, expansive container within which to develop my story, one to anchor and guide me in this new phase of my life and to help me integrate my WHAT's (life story and gifts) with my WHY (purpose) as I build a new business. So happy to come across Haylee and her story coaching! She offers such an invaluable gift of space holding, guidance, coaching, encouragement and storytelling.
I really appreciate that she feels into what is being said behind the words, affirms that she feels and sees in me, and, above all, she cares about me as a person, my story, and my growth, first and foremost. If you are seeking fertile grounds within which to nurture a story and/or truth about yourself, I wholeheartedly recommend Haylee!!
Becca, Multimedia Artist
My greatest challenge has been leaving the darkness behind and stepping into the light. There are challenges in sharing our story when the people we have been most naked, intimate, and honest with were not loving, kind, or accepting of us. Moreover, we live in a world where certain narratives are elevated, and others are erased. This is injustice, and we must heal ourselves and speak our truth in order for people like us to know that they are powerful, beautiful, talented, and BLESSED.
The journey is always been about self-love, but it is never linear. How can we love ourselves when that was never an option? How can we know our true selves when the truth was never an option? This experience has taught me that our stories shape who we believe we are—our stories are worthy; WE ARE WORTHY! No one has YOUR STORY. I cannot overstate how much value I derived from this program—I highly recommend Story With Haylee!
Nicole, Life Coach
Before working with Haylee, I was struggling with understanding and finding value in my story. It was difficult for me to own the power that my story could have for other people. I would downplay my experiences and gloss over my struggles and achievements. Through working with Haylee, I was able to feel empowered through sharing my story. She helped me find the beauty in my past and how it is supporting the impact I want to make in this world.
Whenever I felt doubt, she cheered me on and lifted me up. It was especially transformative to be seen and validated by a fellow woman of color who understands how much we have been silenced over generations. Now I have more confidence in not only my story but what I'm creating in my life. I would highly recommend working with Haylee if you want to understand your story, own the power in it, and share it clearly with others.